Ugh, Valentine's Day. Apparently he's the patron saint of lovers, but I'm beginning to suspect that he's the patron saint of florists, chocolatiers and card companies. When I first moved to Germany in the middle of the 1990s, both St. Valentine's Day and Hallowe'en were practically unknown and viewed with suspicion as nasty, Anglo-Saxon, madey-uppy kinds of holidays that had no place in the German tradition. And to a certain extent they were right. Germans got along perfectly well without either of them - German children managed to survive childhood without the opportunity to trick or treat, and I'm more than certain that the vast majority of people who are made to feel inadequate about their singledom in the midst of this heart-and-candy cornucopia would manage quite nicely without it, too. But in the past decade, both holidays have become increasingly common and particularly the latter has been snapped up with gusto by chocolate / card / flower / trashy knick-knack companies that see an opportunity to make a few bucks.
Nonetheless - and this is the inherent evil of Valentine's Day - one wakes up hopefully on the morning of this Unholyday and checks for chocolates ... just in case. And, inevitably, my snooping for pralines (which, I must confess, would put a truffle pig to shame) ends in vain. Why does this surprise me? I don't know - but it does. Every year. Valentine's Day has that effect on people: there's a chance that chocolate might be involved and it's impossible not to get your hopes up. But, really, I should know better: Mr Gingerbread used to get very het-up about St. Valentine's Day: he used it as an excuse to launch into a rant with all kinds of -isms. Its basis is in commercialism! cultural imperialism! globalisation! (not strictly an -ism, but it's a main thread of his rant.) And, essentially, he is protesting against all of these evils by ... wait for it! You're going to be surprised by the extent of his political activism! ... by ... yes, wait for it ... doing nothing! There - that surprised you, didn't it?
Nowadays, he's mellowed. I still didn't get chocolates today but, thankfully, I was also spared the rant. When I pointed out that today was Valentine's Day, he puckered his lips, plunger-style, and leaned in for a smacker. The extent of our romantic interplay was me beating him off as he dived on me with big, moist, fishy lips for a "Valentine's Day kiss" (never have three words sounded so ominous. Shudder.) But true love is not dead in the Gingerbread Household: I made him a cup of tea and gave him three of the remaining five chocolate chip cookies (and if you knew us, you would understand why this is a big deal) and he let me sleep for ten minutes longer this morning (again, see comment in parenthesis above). In Gingerbread terms, these are tokens of unbridled passion, so I really shouldn't fuss.
Now I'm off to check the cupboard with cereals and dry goods. Maybe he hid my chocolates in there.
Maybe.
7 comments:
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We celebrate neither Valentine's Day nor Halloween. I did not grow up with this ...
Ah yes, every couple has their own true acts of selfless endearment, much more meaningful than flowers or chocolate! Sounds like you know each other very well.
I rather wish my husband would SKIP V-Day. Good grief, a silly made-up holiday like that... oh wait, they're all made up, aren't they?
LOL.
Ah, your husband sounds like my kind of guy!! We don't "do" Valentine's Day either (and there's always chocolate in this house), but I have to admit since moving to the States I'm a big fan of Halloween. It's so much fun! However, Germany has Karneval/Fasching/Fasnet, so the kids have enough opportunity to dress up and usually there's quite some amount of candy involved if I remember correctly... Isn't it the time soon?
I can only hope that one day your dear hubby can forget about what the rest of the world is doing or thinking and allow himself the pleasure of witnessing your joy at finding those elusive chocolates. :)
Sometimes it's not about the commercialism...it's too easy for him to 'hand-make' you a card, there are so many different kinds of media to work with. And wouldn't it be lovely for him to make you breakfast? :o)
I don't have a man but either of those would make my Valentines Day.
xoxo
I'm too realistic,logical or jaded or thrifty.....whatever you want to call me to bother anymore. I'm at a "been there done that" time of my life it seems. I love doing things for others but when I want to, not because I'm supposed to. BTW, those are the words I've heard from not participating at times so they are not self imposed :)
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